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How do you deal with your EX
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Posted 8 months ago Could use some help here. How do you keep your ex off your back. I haven't been able to do that in 9 years. |
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| Posted 8 months ago Restraining order DISCIPLINE: Knowing what you know to be right, even when nobody's looking. |
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| Posted 7 months ago Gotta agree with emscott...Next time he pops off at you and acts like an a**hat, tell em your filing for a restraining order. If he backs off and calms down great, if not, get the restraining order.. I guess I'm lucky my ex and I are geting along, but hell, who knows what tomorrow will bring. Good luck with him. |
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| Posted 7 months ago I'm lucky, I haven't had any contact with my ex for about 9+ years. |
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| Posted 6 months ago I have done the restraining order thing.. It works for awhile... I am now learning that killing them with kindness when I am stuck seeing him works better than anything... He may be the most angry person I have been around but if I dont let him get to me, maybe one day he will stop... maybe... |
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| Posted 6 months ago Well, the only Blue my ex wife has worn was something that resembled Tent Fabric, so I have an out plan easy. When the Succubus calls and wants to complain about something she did, which is VERY OBVIOUSLY MY FAULT. I text Dispatch and have them call me over the radio to somewhere completely out of my City, or even to have them mumble to me, so I can't hear them too well. She has once gotten a wild hair up her fourth point of contact, and called my Dispatch, to which they quickly created something and then called me on the PD's Cell Phone to let me know what the cover was. Because she is stupid, but not stupid enough. - Take care of your business, before you make it mine. |
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| Posted 6 months ago
..........after the restraining order, and get one just for documentation purposes. Change your cell number, give him a wrong number, do the same with an address. Get a P.O. Box for your mail. Get a security system for your home, there's lots out there that's pretty reasonable. Get a big, loving, attentive and PROTECTIVE dog. All this of course if there are no kids around. If there is ignore the cell number issue. Have a friend as a back up person to notify if an emergency occurs. When I split, I wanted no money from him, when they give you money, they still have control over you, or so they think. Well wishes and Good Luck................................. |
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| Posted 6 months ago How do I deal with my ex(S)....yes - plural....via attorneys. |
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| Posted 6 months ago klamm143 says ...
Amen to that Broken By Faith Renewed By Sacrifice |
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| Posted 6 months ago Offroader21 says ...
See, I have ex's too, just one of them has trouble using sanity. - Take care of your business, before you make it mine. |
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| Posted 6 months ago fortunately my ex and I get along now. |
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| Posted 6 months ago It took about 9 years but things are starting to level off now. |
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| Posted 6 months ago When you LET GO, your ex will let u go... It is something you're doing or not doing and when you realize what that is your ex will leave you alone. Stop feeling sorry or being concerned, etc..... You have to REALLY want your ex to leave you alone for him or her to leave....When you want your ex to leave, when you REALLY want your ex to leave you alone they will. Stop making excuses, stop wondering what might happen if.... LET GO and I promise your ex will too!!!! |
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| Posted 5 months ago How do you handle your ex's? One word................... GLOCK lmao God Bless the Fallen Police Officers...Rest in Peace Momma, I miss you Dearly......
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| Posted 5 months ago A shovel, cement, oh wait public forum I forgot. Sit down and talk about what's the best interest for the kids. If that doesn't work, PROTECTION ORDER. Pain is weakness leaving the body. Obstacles are what we see when we take our eyes off the goal. |
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| Posted 5 months ago Offroader21 says ...
Well, I have ex's too, but only one is a pain in the fourth point of contact. - Take care of your business, before you make it mine. |
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| Posted 5 months ago bigjohnson304 says ...
Then you are highly fortunate! - Take care of your business, before you make it mine. |
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| Posted 5 months ago I almost had an ex..............then I just stayed married to her so I wouldn't have to deal with her! |
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| Posted 5 months ago Lulusgt says ...
Cheaper to keep her Pain is weakness leaving the body. Obstacles are what we see when we take our eyes off the goal. |
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| Posted 5 months ago LMAO! God Bless the Fallen Police Officers...Rest in Peace Momma, I miss you Dearly......
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| Posted 5 months ago KSP494 says ...
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| Posted 5 months ago Tazer and oreos...it's like Pavlov's Dogs, only in reverse. Closed Captioned for the thinking impaired. Go look it up, I'll wait. |
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| Posted 5 months ago ME, I just moved 8 hrs away from her and for the past 5 years have not see or heard from her.. It has been a great 5 years. |
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| Posted 5 months ago attorney's is right....at least you don't have to work with yours....mine is the Warden where I work.....i really don't have a problem with working with him...we actually work good together....it 's when some of your so called friends try to be your friend at the same time they are sleeping with your ex....go figure...thank God i have nerves of steele....smile and keep on going...they only get to you if you allow them too... |
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| Posted 4 months ago klamm143 says ...
Amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IDEALIST
==>God's Mills Grind slowly, But they Grind exceedingly fine.<== |
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| Posted 4 months ago I used to just shoot at her and see how close I could get without hitting her. Unfortunately, she gets real sensitive about stuff like that and complained to the local sheriff. He called and asked me to stop shooting at her. So I have. I used to miss her alot. Now that I'm not shooting at her I don't miss her at all. This fall I am going elk hunting with that sheriff. I just hope we don't see her out there too. (the previous story is just that. A Story, A joke, not true at all) The names and identification of the sheriff and the Ex have been deleted for legal reasons. Any references to anyone in the story could apply to any one former spouse. |
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| Posted 4 months ago Icelady11 says ...
I filed for a restraining order and he didn't show in court, 2x........ as for the change of phone/address, that only works if there's no kids involved. I ALWAYS provide numbers and he only gives limited contact. Last time he had the work number, the 'Non Custodial Step parent called the number and started in..... LAST TIME....! ......live at peace with everyone........ |
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| Posted 4 months ago Sung21Heart says ...
HEY.....! This is BETTER than Pavlov....! (LOL) ......live at peace with everyone........ |
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| Posted 4 months ago If I sneak out the back door leaving my wife and 3 kids to go fishing again, I'll let ya know how I deal with my ex. |
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| Posted 4 months ago How I deal with my EX, threat of sedation and tin shears! |